weird weird weird

Thursday, April 29, 2004

decided to heed matt's words and went for the dinner last night. but we didnt eat at indochime as it was raining and there was no table under shade which could accomodate 5 pple. so we ate at restaurant gusto, on level 3. we found a sofa seat and were buzy gossiping away. 5 woman = 1 supermarket?? anyway, the dinner ended early as everyone is tired and wanted to go home early. so we ended the dinner at around 9.30.

anyway i realised there are some pple in this world that makes very weird comments.

yesterday i wore a black mphosis sleevless top and a black skirt, with a slit at the front. and somebody asked me: HUH?? U WEAR LIKE THAT TO WORK AH?? from ur face and tone, u sounded like i am wearing something indecent. haha. and for the moment, i was truely blur. i looked at my attire. its okie what. i work in an office leh, not at a construction site or in a jungle. so y do u look so shocked that that is my work wear?? i am not even wearing cheong wear to work. i do admit that most of the time i dressed shabilly to work and pple comment that i am so shabilly dress. hmmm, human beings are funny creatures, eh?

more weird are the type that always 'shoot' you for no rhyme or reason, at anytime, anywhere. i can proudly admit that i am not a petty person. i am not the type who cannot take jokes and will get angry when pple suan me. during my poly days, i was suan by kem and colgate every other day. guess thats where i fine tuned my suanning and KL skills ba. but i cannot stand it when pple jus suan me out of nowhere. i mean if we were toking abt a topic and u take me as a joke, its okie. bit not out of nowhere, u decide to make a topic out of nothing and suan me. and suan me at everything, and everything abt me. grabbing every oppurtunity to suan me and me only. and even when we are not joking, u still suan me. this, i cannot take it. hey, im susposed to be your fren, not your enemy. or u find me an eyesore?? cmon lah, i dun go to my frens who are plumb and ALWAYS suan them: wah u soooo fat ah. how fat are you?? 80kg?? 90 kg?? when i kno fully well that actually the person is not that heavy at all. but of course, i keep a smiling face. i am not such an ungracious person. i may not suan u back at the time u suan me. but i will remember and wen my unhappiness really builds up, i will not give any chances when i suan u back. and dun whine and complain that i am mean or hurt ur self esteem when i do.

then there are these types. if u think i put on weight, den jus tell me straight in the face: u put on weight. though it is not the most pleasing comment to the ear, but i will take it. but dun ask me: eh, u put on weight ah?? wah lau, how do u expect me to ans. and when i say, i think so lah, i dunno. dun continue to probe: so did u put on weight a not?? yes?? or no?? what kind of ans are you expecting? yes, i stuff myself like a pig everyday. dats y i put on weight. these pple are really weird weird weird.

lastly, i know u are doing well now. u changed a new car and u bought a flat. i am happy for you. but u do u need to lift urself up by putting me down? does that makes u feel that you are a better species that me?? why do u purposely ask me do i still need to work late every day? and when i say i can come late, u say: actually i jus woke up only. and aft lunch, i go meet another client i can go home liao. and when i comment that march's sales was good, chris was happy, u tell me: actually i have already made $5.4 million sales. i mean, hey. u are selling heavy machineries and 1 mchine cost at least 20K. so how to compare? are you trying to make me envy you? or trying to show off how capable you are and what a fool i am to be staying in that company. i really dun kno. but nxt time, i will thik twice wheni wanna kunch with u. anyway, i realised that you are not the only one with this behaviour. maybe you dun mean and u didnt kno that i will be offended. well, thats the problem with pple like U!! u all dun think thru your thick brains before you say anything. you dun consider other pple's feelings. so in the long run, u think: how come nowadays wheni ask CP for lunch she's always bz?? and u probably think its my problem. but i seriously think u need to do some self reflection.

of course i am not saying i am purfect and have not offend anybody before. but i think i am better than the examples listed above. if u think otherwise, please let me know.

Clatzz reflected on 11:18 AM